bammoo

“Every woman I know – scratch that, every person I know – has wasted years of their life stressing over someone they would eventually find to be awful and overlooked someone who would have devoted everything to them. If I could have any super power it would be to love that desperate ass person who would be my bitch throughout this life. But, alas, I’m only human. Fine as hell, but a human all the same. And I like the struggle. You can’t force these things. You can’t love someone for reasons. You can only love them for feelings. And our feelings always seem to just do whatever they want, go where they want to go, spike when we want to hide them, hide when we want to show them. Give up now, you are at their mercy.”

- Erin Foster, Single Girls Guide (I Am A Bad Person)

The absolute truth! That struggle is my life. Erin Foster is doing good things. 

Item of the day: Butterfly in a Jar

One of my favourite Christmas presents this year.

I asked for and received the monarch but sort of wished I’d asked for the Blue Morpho.

It is pretty creepy actually and will weird people out when they come into my office.